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Chelsea Handleris telling her love story!
On herpodcastDear ChelseaThursday, Handler invitedboyfriend Jo Koyonto the show to discuss their relationship — which the couple revealed has been years in the making.
Discussing those early years of friendship, Handler, 46, and Koy, 50, agreed that their chemistry was “amazing” — but their memories diverge from there.
“And you thought that chemistry was sexual and I thought it was comedic,” Handler said as Koy interjected, “never did I ever say that!”
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Later, Handler admitted that “in retrospect,” she probably had a bit of a crush on Koy, too, but that she was probably “suppressing” those feelings at the time.
“I was just not in touch with myself to understand, I knew I liked talking with you and having you in my life because you’re positive and upbeat. It’s infectious and I loved all of that. But I wasn’t like oh my God, this desire to have something happen. To have something happen, not at all,” Handler said. “By the way, who gives a s—-? Look where we are now. I would’ve ruined it if I had those feelings earlier, probably.”
Handler said that for a long time, Koy didn’t seem like a potential romantic partner for her because he had “brother energy.”
“You have a lot of similar qualities that my brother had,” she told Koy, referring to her older brother Chet, whodied in 1984. “So, in many ways, like I just feel so completely safe. And I feel like, ‘oh, this is family,’ like I’ve always felt that way about you, that you’re family.”
“I just didn’t want to f— you before,” she added.
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Handler explained that she and Koy reconnected shortly before theCOVID-19 pandemicwhen he asked her to write a blurb for his then-forthcoming book,Mixed Plate. They began texting and having COVID-safe hang outs, and eventually started FaceTiming regularly, too.
Because of their work schedules and quarantine rules, they went without seeing each other for about four months, Handler said.
“The minute we were both back in LA, we were like, ‘let’s go to dinner,’ " Koy said. From there, they started spending a ton of time together and things progressed “organically,” according to Handler.
After Koy came to Las Vegas to support her during her first major show since the pandemic, Handler said she felt something was different between them, and noticed that she just wanted to spend time with him.
When they got back to LA, she made a move, she said, and they’ve been together ever since.
The pairmade their relationship public on Instagramlast week when Handler shared a pair of photos with Koy, including asweet snap of the duo mid-smooch.
“He’s on tour, I’m on tour, sometimes we tour together,” she captioned the post.
source: people.com
