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Chelsea Handler visits SiriusXM Studios

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Chelsea Handleris opening up about the reason she and former NBC chairman Ted Harbert broke up more than a decade ago.

On Wednesday, the comedian, 48, chatted withAndy Cohenon hisSiruisXM radio showabout the threesome she had with the couple’s masseuse — and how that was the beginning of the end of her relationship with Harbert.

The topic came up when Cohen asked Handler if she ever dated a woman.

“I’ve slept with a woman,” theChelsea Latelystar revealed, “but I haven’t dated a woman.” When Cohen pushed for more detail, Handler admitted it was during a threesome.

Cohen laughed and Handler continued. “I don’t think I ever revealed that, but I mean, hopefully, he’s listening now,” she said with a chuckle. “His name is Ted Harbert. He’s in Portugal though. He might not have access to this … he and his wife are building a house in Portugal.”

Handler and Harbert broke up in 2010 after dating for four years. He was the president of E! Entertainment when the Handler’s late-night show launched in 2006.

Previously, Handler suggested the reason they broke up was because he couldn’t separate work from the rest of their life.

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“I would come home from work, and Ted would be like, ‘Do you want to watch your show?’ and I’d be like, ‘No, I just came from my show. That’s the last thing I’d want to do,'” she said in an interview withMarie Clairein 2012. “That was the reason it didn’t work out, ultimately. I think.”

Cohen continued to press Handler about threesomes in the interview, asking if she’d ever “gift your man a three-way?”

“Absolutely,” she responded emphatically. “It’s fun. Absolutely.”

Handler most recently datedJo Koy, 52, before announcing their split last year.

source: people.com